Events FAQ
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| Event | Who? | When? | Rules | Charges | Dress Code |
| Eros Bound (Workshops+Dungeon) |
Adults 18+ | All day, Saturday closest to Valentine's Day | Link | $30/person, Discounts available |
Anything goes (within the venue). |
| Munches | Adults 18+ | Every 4th Friday, 5-7pm | No BDSM play. Be good to our host venue and their other guests. | No cover. Food/Drink cost is up to you. | Casual - discreet collars welcome. |
| Socials | Adults 18+ | Every 1st Wednesday, 8-10pm | No BDSM play. Be good to our host venue and their other guests. | No cover. Food/Drink cost is up to you. | Casual - discreet collars welcome. |
| Private Parties | Members and Guests Only |
Join and find out! | Link | Not a cent. Snacks are potluck. |
Anything goes (within the venue). |
| Workshops | Adults 18+ | Every 2nd Wednesday, 7pm | Bring your curiousity, not your toybag. | Not a cent. | Casual (Entryway is a kid-friendly environment). |
| Open Dungeons | Adults 18+ | Schedule TBA | Link | $5 - Members $10 - Nonmembers |
Anything goes (within the venue). |
| Erotic Feasts | Adults 18+ | TBA - Watch the calendar! | Contribute to the feast - and bring your appetites! | Not a cent. | Comfy loungewear, or something spicier. |
| Meetings | Members and Guests Only |
Every 4th Friday, 4pm. | Modifed Robert's. One hour time limit. Please submit agenda items to the Chair 24 hours in advance. | Not a cent. | Casual - discreet collars welcome. |
| Field Trips | Adults 18+ | TBA - Watch the calendar! | Bring your curiousity, not your toybag. | Varies, usually free. | Casual - discreet collars welcome. |
| Scheduled Chats | **Unrestricted** | Every Sunday, 8-10pm | No cams or fservs. Ask before pming. | Not a cent. | N/A |
| When attending our various events, it's important to remember that CEPE is a very inclusive and pansexual group. You might see many different styles and degrees of D/s relationships at our events, and many differing versions of protocol - all of which are welcome and respected. Remember, too, that just like in any other part of polite society, you shouldn't make assumptions about anyone's role, relationship status, preferences, or gender. |
| What is the proper way for me to attend? |
| Show up! CEPE does not insist on RSVP's. If you're new, and would like someone to greet you or answer questions beforehand, simply let us know - we're always here to welcome you. Most of our activities carry an age or membership requirement that is non-negotiable. If this currently affects you, your patience is appreciated and respected. Finding the CEPE folks at a get-together in a public venue is as easy as looking for the table-tent or banner with the CEPE logo or Leather Pride flag on it. C'mon over and say hello! |
| What if I can only participate once in awhile? |
| Not to worry - we all have lives and other commitments. We're not going to to get fascist with you about attendance. On the other hand, remember, the more the merrier! We like seeing folks get together and enjoy the community, and we need your input to keep things fun and worthwhile! |
| How can I get updates on what CEPE's doing? |
| Check the calendar page! And even more conveniently, join our Forum! (People frequently write us to say, "Sure, I'm interested in going to a CEPE event sometime. Let me know when you're doing something." With up to five face-to-face get-togethers in a month, such requests are seldom taken seriously. It's just not reasonable to expect our members to send a stranger direct personal messages repeatedly and indefinitely. If you want to know how to meet up with us, we want to see you too, so we've gladly made it as easy for you to find our events as we can.) |
| What if I go to an event and see someone I know there? |
| **First of all, if someone you know from your everyday life attends an event you come to, they're in the exact same situation as you. They're likely to be more concerned about their "kinky" friends learning about their "normal" life, than vice versa. So relax, smile, and introduce yourself. |
| **If you're at a munch or social and spot an acquaintance elsewhere in the restaurant... That's the reason our dress code is casual and no BDSM play is allowed: you're simply "out with friends." But if you're uncomfortable and need to excuse yourself for the evening, everyone at the table will understand - we've all been through the same awkward situation at some point. |
| **A final thought about your private life and your everyday life colliding: It happens, at least once, sooner or later to almost everyone - no matter what one's private life entails. We survive it if we choose to, and find the risk really is manageable with a deep breath and a little forethought. |
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